Infinite Bliss in the finite (SEX)

Some Western psychologists consider sex to be the motivating force in life ; others hold that desire for power is the guiding incentive.In everything there is a conscious and subconscious urge for joy,bliss, or the highest Happiness. having forgo owing to ignorance, the soul tries to find Infinite Bliss in the finite, but it fails miserably. Infinite bliss can be found only in the Infinite Being. That is what the seers are declare :

"The Infinite alone Bliss. There is no abiding bliss in anything finite. The Infinite only is Bliss. The Infinite alone is Supreme Happiness, and must be realized."

The source of the Highest Happiness lies in every one of us! Sri Ramkrishna a Great Master's parable of the man with a lighted lantern in his hand going to a neighbor's house and asking for fire to light his pipe illustrate the point,The "fire" he wants is with him, although he forgets about it and seeks it elsewhere.

Then there is the ancient Hindu illustration of the musk-deer who, deluded,wanders around in the woods, searching madly for the fragrant musk that is to be found within its own navel. 

To overcome this there is a only way and that is prayer, when you love your partner,what you are doing? you only tried to unit with the opposite pole, sometime for a moment it happens,because you have to fulfill so many conditions. And until you fulfill these conditions you only pass through the action ,you have to..very rare, if at all any couple can fulfilled these conditions and tuned, then and then only the possibility of that joy....

What is that experience!--for a moment ego merge into each other, but it is very rare............, in deep prayer it happens.In this prayer there is no need of partner.Here you are trying to unit with cosmos.Another person become only window, through this window you are entering in the world of stars,sky and flying birds.you are now traveled to the another end which leave the window, there happens a miracle, because the ego is due to that window.Once you leave the window behind then ego also disappears,ego needs duality: when there is no other, then ego can not exist.

Psychiatrist says ego comes afterwards,first you have to imagine duality.

Once you leave the window of 'Love-Lover',and take yourself to another end,then and then only that happens.To this Buddha said "NIRVANA". This is a beautiful word, it means disappearance of flame into the cosmos as a infinity. Now you are on the top of mountain,   In this peak of love , it happens!!!